17 Points To A Happy Marriage
I happened to thumb through my grandfathers recipe book a while ago, and I found an exerpt in there that speaks the truth so fine, that one could not take better advice as far as being happy in marriage.
I copied what was written, and have brought it here to share with you and your loved ones. Please take the time to read this, and do share it with your parents. They may find it a joy to read. I had to omit a few religious references so abide to the rules of BZPower, but ya get the jist.
Old Wisdom for all to share.
17 Points for a Happy Marriage
1) - The very nearest approach to domestic happiness on earth is in the cultivation on both sides of absolute unselfishness.
2) - Never both be angry at once.
3) - Never speak loud to one another unless the house is on fire.
4) - Let each one strive to yield oftenest to the wishes of the other
5) - Let self denial be the daily aim and practice of each.
6) - Never find fault unless it is perfectly certain that a fault has been committed and always speak lovingly.
7) - Never taunt with a past mistake.
8) - Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
9) - Never allow a request to be repeated
10) - Never make a remark at the expense of each other.
11) - Never part for a day without loving words to think of during absence.
12) - Never let the sun go down upon any anger or grievance.
13) - Never meet without a loving welcome.
14) - Never forget the happy hours of early love.
15) - Never sigh over what might have been, but make the best of what it is.
16) - Never forget that marriage is ordained by ****, and that **** blessings alone can make it what it should ever be.
17)-Never be contented till you know you are both walking in the same narrow way
I read this exerpt aloud with my Man, and we about cried afterward cause it felt so beautiful to share.
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