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Gotta Do Something! / Have An Enemy


Javi

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have an enemy

 

For the most part, I'm okay with just about everyone - unless they do something to me, I don't really care/judge them. This kid hasn't really done much to me...I just really, really hate him. He's a narcissistic, egotistical, annoying #####. I hate everything about him - his appearance, voice, sense of humour, laugh...he completely disgusts me. (I don't hate him for no reason; he's always been nasty to me and I resent him for it.)

 

And I overheard him say that he likes the girl I like.

 

gotta do something

 

I don't think I could live with losing my chance with a girl to this kid...and what's worse is that he seems to be doing ten times better with her when it comes to talking and hanging out. I really like her - I don't want to lose her to the person I despise the most in the world. So I gotta do something...I guess starting with talking to her more if I can tonight. It would help if I didn't get so nervous that I can't think of anything to say besides "Hey"...

 

Entry Song: Head Like A Hole by Nine Inch Nails

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Wow, enemy stealing your girl? Well, I'm afraid I don't have much advice for you here, seeing as I've never had that happen -mostly due to the circumstances-, but I can offer this: if this person truly embodies evil -from your description he does :|-, and your friend goes for him? You don't want her. Granted, the 'Devil is sly' rule applies, but he can't just hide his personality if he's truly spending so much time with her. If she goes for a ***** of a guy, then you don't need that person by your side.
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Wow, enemy stealing your girl? Well, I'm afraid I don't have much advice for you here, seeing as I've never had that happen -mostly due to the circumstances-, but I can offer this: if this person truly embodies evil -from your description he does :|-, and your friend goes for him? You don't want her. Granted, the 'Devil is sly' rule applies, but he can't just hide his personality if he's truly spending so much time with her. If she goes for a ***** of a guy, then you don't need that person by your side.

Protip: Don't tell a guy to not like a girl he likes. :/

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I suppose that never does give one brownie points, but it's the truth. I'm sorry if I put it bluntly, but I've never been good at sugar coating stuff. :|
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Don't worry; if you're truly the better person, sooner or later, she should realize it. :)

 

But talking to her more sounds good.

 

I hope so...

 

I'm almost ready to give up on texting her. I don't think she's carried on a conversation since I first got her number...

 

 

Wow, enemy stealing your girl? Well, I'm afraid I don't have much advice for you here, seeing as I've never had that happen -mostly due to the circumstances-, but I can offer this: if this person truly embodies evil -from your description he does :|-, and your friend goes for him? You don't want her. Granted, the 'Devil is sly' rule applies, but he can't just hide his personality if he's truly spending so much time with her. If she goes for a ***** of a guy, then you don't need that person by your side.

 

He's my own personal evil. Girls seem to like him a lot, though. I have a really close girl friend who really likes the kid - every time I bring up something he did that annoyed me, she'll completely ignore it and tell me "not to make fun of ____". So if the girl I like sees whatever it is that my friend sees in him...but I certainly wouldn't judge her as a bad pick of a girl for liking a guy I happen to hate.

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Personally, I'd *maybe* run up to her and say "My name is McFerdinan! Nice to meet you."

 

But I'm a shy little bugga, and I only do that in my dreams.

 

This sounds like it's a cooler, BZPmember version of Fred: The Movie. I say, write a script for what you want to say, and, in a moment of life or death or something to that affect, say hi, and ask if she'd like to hang out sometime.

 

Also, try taking your enemy as a strength. You can use him as motivation to talk to her, and not loose him to her.

 

Hope it helps. Beware, though, I've been known to make things worse with my advice.

 

You've been warned ( :P ), hope things work out.

 

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He's my own personal evil. Girls seem to like him a lot, though. I have a really close girl friend who really likes the kid - every time I bring up something he did that annoyed me, she'll completely ignore it and tell me "not to make fun of ____". So if the girl I like sees whatever it is that my friend sees in him...but I certainly wouldn't judge her as a bad pick of a girl for liking a guy I happen to hate.

Well then, the Devil is Sly rule applies; only thing I can see working in this case is being more active with the girl and going on more dates. Just don't let her become your life; it causes problems then.

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