Decisions

It finally happened to me.  I found my Mass Effect Dilemma.

Everyone tells me about their Mass Effect Dilemma, where they didn't know what to choose--and while I know I still have a doozy coming up (I spoiled myself years in advance) I found my first one last night.

I've been completing loyalty quests for fun, and so far I've done: Miranda, Jacob, Jack, and Tali.  I was in the middle of Garrus'--or rather at the end.

Spoilers inevitably follow:


And I'm going to be honest I didn't know what to do.  On the one hand I needed to secure Garrus' loyalty, I can't let my mission against the collectors fail, it's life or death for humanity.  On the other hand I don't want that Garrus.  I don't want to let a friend become that.  Additionally I don't think what he's doing is right--do I risk standing up to him and thus lose him as an asset in the war against the collectors?  Or do I allow him to go through with what he wants and have  a guilty conscience for what I allowed him to do?

Or do I cheat, minimize, go check the wiki, and then answer?

(The answer is the last one, by the way)