I for one believe that people should mind their own business a little better, or at least respect people's lives and the decisions they make, especially with something as important and life-changing as loving someone.
If they can't grant you that much, then they need to kindly go away.
Also, the term Smeagkira is probably one of the stupidest things I've seen on this site, and I've seen some stupid stuff, but that's just me =\