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One of the Greatest Blog Entries Ever

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53 Things to do Before a First Kiss, by Kraggh

 

Honestly, that is one of the most awesome things I have read on BZPower. I've always thought that many relationships today are flawed, and the intentions that people have are...well, I guess, wrong. Now I'm not sure that I agree that all of these should be/need to be done before a first kiss, because I feel like that's something that you need to just kind of "let it come" when the time is right.

 

I don't think of this so much as a "to-do list" or "bucket list", but rather, just a list of amazingly cute couple things that would be simply awesome to do. Because I think the focus should be on each other, on doing things like this (pure, innocent things) together -- the relationship should be about your thoughts, intentions, and attitudes toward one another. I definitely think that all of these things should be done at some point (or, rather, that it would be incredibly awesome if they were done at some point), but again not in a way of checking off things as you do them, but just things to do that would keep the relationship pure and focused on each other. Basically I just feel like this is a list that would be incredibly awesome to do -- not that everything would, necessarily, be done, but that I wish all of these things could be done, even before a first kiss.

 

This really leads into my thoughts on love and true love -- things that I think are really, really misunderstood in society today. I mean, honestly, if you can do all of this, before even a kiss, that means something. I'm not saying this all needs to be done before a first kiss, but the intention should be there -- that you're not so much concerned about kissing, etc., but more just concerned about each other, and the purity of the relationship. I honestly can't think of any reason not to do any of these...if you're bad at singing (like I am), so what? That's just what makes this list so awesome, that a lot of these things you would be making a fool of yourself, but done with the right person and that's something extremely beautiful.

 

I've started to write a blog entry on true love and relationships, etc., probably at least half a dozen times now, but every time I do I end up straying into religion or something else not appropriate for BZPower. I still want to some time, though...who knows. But honestly, this is just an amazingly beautiful blog entry and awesome thing.

 

~ Velox

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Jean Valjean

:kaukau: I don't know what to say. This is very moving. People have complemented me on my writing before, but I have never felt until now that I have ever written anything that has moved someone else. Thank you. This gives me faith that I can truly make a difference and touch people through my writing - or really, once you think about it, by simply being human. This really means a lot.

 

Also, do the best entry on relationships that you can, because I really look forward to this. Janus lately posted something about healthy relationships as well, and it's high time that we on BZPower "give all [we] can give so that our banner may advance" in the area of improving our understanding of our most basic relationships with each other. These thoughts need to be shared, and hopefully just a few bloggers can make a difference in creating an atmosphere.

 

Meanwhile, I have put a series of essays on the back burner that I was going to write half a year ago but set aside. Since then I've made a few mistakes, hit a few bumps in the road, walked a rough path, and come out of it all a little wiser. This had brought a need to share my new knowledge any way I can. "The Immortals" is based around an inner dialogue I had last weekend as I was suffering from the hurt of certain social experiences, but there are also old promises to keep, and I will pull out those old essays again so that hopefully people can begin thinking about these things again. Hopefully you'll be there, too, doing your part in building our awareness of our own hearts, and I look forward to this very much.

 

Again, I thank you on so many levels. This means a lot to me.

 

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Velox

@ Smeag ~ Personally, I don't think someone should be kissing someone else if they're not in a relationship. Romantically kissing, I mean.

 

@ Kraggh ~ I'm really glad -- I meant every word I said, and this really was an amazing entry -- I definitely hope you write more entries like this.

 

Yeah, I'm definitely planning to. Who knows when, because November is kind of crazy, and who knows when I'll be inspired to write about this subject again enough to write about it in a way that would be allowed. But I definitely still want to, and I will -- some day. I'm really glad you show an interest in it, and again I really look forward to reading more of your writing on this as well. You're very welcome.

 

~ Velox

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