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This Is 'do Or Die', People


The Fallen Amph

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UGH

 

I chickened again, because of pressure from my friends and the 'Fight or Flight' feeling. And, I had at least 3 chances to say something. It's gone from saying,"Hi" to the "Will you go out with me?" kinda deal. You and me both know a simple "Hi" won't do much. And, that's probably what's she's expecting...If anything at all...

Thank goodness it's Thursday. This must be done tommorow. No questions asked. No backing down. As I said, I can't go a another week knowing I need to do this (Spring Break is next week).

Also, for some reason, my friends hate me for not doing it...

You guys, this is when I really need advice:

  • When's the best time: when she's alone or when she's with 1 or 2 friends (she always is)?
  • What's the best way to handle "No" or an insult.
But I noticed, today, that she's not that "higher ranking" as I thought...

 

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Alone. She won't give a true answer if she has friends right there. What good do they think of you?

 

Secondly, this is gonna suck, but there is a big chance she'll say no, so don't act suprised or heart-broken.

 

Also, if she does say yes (and I hope for your sake she does) make sure you have MONEY. You, as the male in this date, must pay.

 

Wait. Second thought. This happened to me and my my was it embarrassing.

 

Its Friday, she could have other plans with her amigas.

 

You sure you want to go through with this? You have to start hanging out with her to get o know her. If you have a guy friend that talks to the girls, hang with him. His charm (if its good charm) will run off of you.

 

~AA

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I wish I could help you, but I believe the choice is up to you. Go, Amph, shoot for your dreams :D

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Alone. She won't give a true answer if she has friends right there. What good do they think of you?

 

Secondly, this is gonna suck, but there is a big chance she'll say no, so don't act suprised or heart-broken.

 

Also, if she does say yes (and I hope for your sake she does) make sure you have MONEY. You, as the male in this date, must pay.

 

Wait. Second thought. This happened to me and my my was it embarrassing.

 

Its Friday, she could have other plans with her amigas.

 

You sure you want to go through with this? You have to start hanging out with her to get o know her. If you have a guy friend that talks to the girls, hang with him. His charm (if its good charm) will run off of you.

 

~AA

 

1. I have money (birthday money still)

2. I would ask her on a date today. If she says yes, It would probably be some time this week.

3. Well, that's the point of going on a date. That's how I get to know her, you know? Oh yeah, I do have a friend who knows her. And, he's been my friend since I was six, but I've already gone through that dealy-O.

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It...went...horrible.

 

I planned I was going to ask at our first recess (11:00 AM) So I could get it done early. Well, apparently my friend, Brent (He's not my friend anymore..), a kid named Josh, and a kid named Luke didn't want that to happen. They wanted me to do it that morning. I said I was going to do it later. Then Brent kept yelling and trying to get over to her and creating a scene (DX). Then, without me knowing, this Luke kid went over there to ask for me. That's exactly why she's currently upset. Then he comes back saying that she said, "No."

 

Now, this could be for 1 of 2 reasons:

  • She plain does not like me.
  • She's really upset because she thinks that I had someone ask her out for me.
... :mellow: ... :( ...

 

But, it seems, she hasn't completly lost attention in me. For some reason, my friends and I ended up going up to her "hang-out" area (junglegym...thing). And, she glanced at me a good 3 times. Also, if the fiasco in the morning didn't happen, I would have had a lot of chances to ask...

 

Now to Strings time (music).

 

We are both in Strings in music. But, for some reason, we had "free time recess" instead (Band and Strings people). Nothing really to say here. Except that we played kick ball and she was on the opposite team. :P Wait! there is something... I was standing in line to kick. She was standing in the outfield when, suddenly, I noticed that she was looking at me and the girl in front of her turned around after she did a small point to me....

...I don't know what do think anymore...

Also, when I got close to her when it was time to leave (or ever got close) she looked as if she was expecting me to say something...

 

Am I dumped? Do I still have a chance? :(

 

 

 

 

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