I agree with you on most of this, however I'd like to fight you on one point; perhaps it simply wasn't meant to be with him and your mother. Or maybe it was and they were meant to divorce to toughen you up. But, having been there when my uncle got his, I'd just like to say that, especially if they marry young, often people find themselves an a marriage they are unhappy with, and shouldn't have to be miserable for their entire lives due to something they said at an altar.

Necro, I won't argue with that. You're right.

But he told me himself, he didn't love my mother then.

And he was foolish enough to take that vow.

~AA

But he told me himself, he didn't love my mother then.

 

And he was foolish enough to take that vow.

 

~AA

I highly doubt that. Most likely his mind just worked him into believing that...

While I'll admit there may be some credit in his words, I admit UK is right. My uncle's mind did the same thing. Still, it's a fools move to get married that young.

But he told me himself, he didn't love my mother then.

 

And he was foolish enough to take that vow.

 

~AA

I highly doubt that. Most likely his mind just worked him into believing that...

He had this plan to prove to my mother's father that he could marry her and live happily ever after.

Pretty sure my grandfather brought that promise into the afterlife.

~AA