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Rants And Explanations


The Fallen Amph

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This is not a "story" entry. Just some points I wish to address about Amanda. Also rant on things relating to the subject.

 

So. This entire thing has been going on for about 8 1/2 months. This is really pathetic. It should have been done, at the most, one week after it started! Sorry. Self pity is very bad for your health.

 

Why. That is the question (No Shakespeare quote intended). I'm… not really afraid. I'm just--- I plan things out, and imagine how they would play out. But when the moment comes, it feels like there a wall between us. Where neither of us can do anything. Occasionally there will be a small hole in that wall. But then quickly sealed by the cement called fear. Nervousness.

 

All of the times I've spoke to her so far, have had… err, not bad consequences. :D

 

This why I need real advice. Not just "Go up and talk to her, it's not that hard!"

 

 

 

We've already gone down that road. I'm afraid because I really like her. In which leads me to my next topic: average middle school relationships.

 

(This info regards almost 65% - 79% of middle school boys. Based on years of experience and seeing things taking place.) Obviously Biohero Codrex doesn't count. Anyway, when a boy likes a girl this is what their general idea of what they will do together. "Give "cute" comments together and Make out ( <_< )".

 

This is what they say (or a variation of this): "You're hot! Will you go out with me?" (Please. Someone with a knowledge of school slang, tell me what "go out" actually means?)

 

Frigging morons. Even I know that's really blunt and stupid.

 

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I actually really like Amanda. A lot. Not, definitely not even one thousand miles close attracted to her… the other way. She's just… very pretty… to me. Even though we've never met each other, I feel like we already know each other. It's weird. That is why I'm devoting my time to this. I really like her.

 

My idea what would happened if she does like me and wants to start over is this. We will slowly become friends and hang out with each other's friends. Possibly start going to each other's houses. I take her some places (maybe) until that moment when…

 

I think you should like a person for who they are and how you are alike. Not all on looks.

 

My question is as stated above. Please help me my friends.

 

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Well i guess just talk to her with ice breakers like "what's up" and "hey" or stuff like that.. maybe after a week of her getting comfortable around you ask her if she wants to go see a movie or something (side note: horror movies are not a good first "date" movie, contrary to popular belief..) after that... well, to quote andrew ryan "in the end, our decisions make us"..

 

I can see how devoted you are to her, she sounds like a nice gal..

 

 

on the subject of liking someone on looks, i'll be honest, they do matter.. for me a girls eyes get me hooked, and then i get to know her better and start to like her based on personality.

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Well i guess just talk to her with ice breakers like "what's up" and "hey" or stuff like that.. maybe after a week of her getting comfortable around you ask her if she wants to go see a movie or something (side note: horror movies are not a good first "date" movie, contrary to popular belief..) after that... well, to quote andrew ryan "in the end, our decisions make us"..

 

I can see how devoted you are to her, she sounds like a nice gal..

 

 

on the subject of liking someone on looks, i'll be honest, they do matter.. for me a girls eyes get me hooked, and then i get to know her better and start to like her based on personality.

 

That's what I meant.

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Well i guess just talk to her with ice breakers like "what's up" and "hey" or stuff like that.. maybe after a week of her getting comfortable around you ask her if she wants to go see a movie or something (side note: horror movies are not a good first "date" movie, contrary to popular belief..) after that... well, to quote andrew ryan "in the end, our decisions make us"..

 

I can see how devoted you are to her, she sounds like a nice gal..

 

 

on the subject of liking someone on looks, i'll be honest, they do matter.. for me a girls eyes get me hooked, and then i get to know her better and start to like her based on personality.

 

That's what I meant.

 

well i guess we share the same opinion on this subject *waits for 11 year olds to begin replying with "strange" comments*

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Okay, my best advice would be....man, I think I've already given all my best advice. Just--do the clean slate thing, and then things will get easier.

 

So, by the except BioHero thing, you mean I'm not just in it to make out, or I'm not a middle school boy :lol:?

Yeah, as I siad several times to her, "go out" and the boyfriend/girlfriend thing is, a this point, just a title. It means nothing that hasn't already been expressed if you both say you like each other. Except for the more "loose" 7th graders, who will actually kiss/make out.

 

About the bottom section, I know what you mean. Nerds like us (no offense) are smart enough to know that a personality really counts.

I like your vision, very gradual and not all crazy--I believe "moving too fast" is the term that you aren't. But it made me realize, I have no idea what it'd be like if me and her went out. I considered that too out of reach. Besides, we already hang out occasionally.

 

 

 

 

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