Don´t! Don´t be miserable! Don´t be hollow, don´t be sad, don´t be any of that stuff! Yes, try to undo whatever goes wrong, whenever you can, but don´t make a lot of it. Don´t focus on your sadness before you´ve made sure it doesn´t take you over, and don´t, this early in the year, condemn your chances of a year well lived.

The most specific thing I can say: Don´t ever think you´re wasting our time. If you need anyone to listen, people who wants to listen won´t be wasting their time by doing so. Personally I´m grateful for any opportunity I have to help out a friend who needs me to, and I wouldn´t like learning of your troubles from anyone else than yourself ( of course there´s hardly a chance of that ever happening, and of course I don´t like it either when you say yourself that you´re sad, but you get the idea).

You´re not really supposed to wait for the better times. You´re supposed to move towards them.

~MOSM~

dont be that stuff on purpose. you have no idea how bad things can get; dont let that stupid miserableness consume you when you have reasons to smile. if its really botheing you, talk to someone. you know what happened when i shut up and didnt talk to people? i went to the hospital for a week.

and mosm is right. you cant just sit around waiting for good stuff to come, you already have it, and you can get more, but you have to work toward it.

so stop being silly and perk up

Don´t! Don´t be miserable! Don´t be hollow, don´t be sad, don´t be any of that stuff! Yes, try to undo whatever goes wrong, whenever you can, but don´t make a lot of it. Don´t focus on your sadness before you´ve made sure it doesn´t take you over, and don´t, this early in the year, condemn your chances of a year well lived.

 

The most specific thing I can say: Don´t ever think you´re wasting our time. If you need anyone to listen, people who wants to listen won´t be wasting their time by doing so. Personally I´m grateful for any opportunity I have to help out a friend who needs me to, and I wouldn´t like learning of your troubles from anyone else than yourself ( of course there´s hardly a chance of that ever happening, and of course I don´t like it either when you say yourself that you´re sad, but you get the idea).

 

You´re not really supposed to wait for the better times. You´re supposed to move towards them.

 

~MOSM~

okay, okay. I'll do my best. ._.

dont be that stuff on purpose. you have no idea how bad things can get; dont let that stupid miserableness consume you when you have reasons to smile. if its really botheing you, talk to someone. you know what happened when i shut up and didnt talk to people? i went to the hospital for a week.

 

and mosm is right. you cant just sit around waiting for good stuff to come, you already have it, and you can get more, but you have to work toward it.

 

so stop being silly and perk up

... I feel so stupid now >< Seriously. Yes, you are right, I really have no idea.

So, um, thanks for the motivating speech (no sarcasm this time, I promise)

*****

Thanks to you two for replying to this; you really opened my eyes. (and now I see how foolish I've been ><)

I hope it's okay with everyone if I lock this entry, though.