How Do I Put This?
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Ok, kind of a sad story here, but I feel the need to get it out. (and this is a blog after all)
-Boy meets girl/vice verca
-Boy and girl are friends, hang out sometimes during school
-Boy likes girl, doesn't make it obvious (hopefully)
-But boy still tries to see girl whenever he can, such as arranging to meet up at anime convention, but it's not like they really hang out not at school
-After about a year and a half, boy finally asks girl out (to spring formal (boy and girl are High School Juniors now))
-Girl said she'd go with boy, but might be busy
-Girl is busy that night, but both arrange to see Spider-Man 3 a week later (including a dinner)
-Later some details are surfaced and girl doesn't want to call it a "date" and just wants to go as friends
-Boy says OK, next day says he really wants to date her though
-Girl says boy is a good friend, but doesn't feel like dating boy. Enjoys hanging out with boy, though
-Boy understands, doesn't want to ruin friendship, so they are still going to see said movie.
-Yeah, that's about it. And I was feeling so confident she really liked me too. I'd actually have a girlfriend for once. But no. We'll still be friends, I don't think it'll go downhill, but I'm not one to just say to another girl "want to go see a movie" because I'm afraid somebody will think of it as a date. (I guess I'm just wierd like that)
<--that seemed appropriate
So I realize some people that have read this actually have experience with this kind of stuff. I'm not asking for sympathy or anything, but perhaps some suggestions to keep our "friendship" (it's that, for sure) going and we'll still hang out later.
(I knew if I didn't ask her soon, I'd regret it later, so I did, which was a big step for me. I'm happy about that)
Ok, that's kind of a mess. Told you I have no experience with this.
-CF 
<--trying something new
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