The Golden Rule
If you want me to take the time to hear your argument out, then I'm going to expect you to do the same for me.
If you want me to be respectful and reasonable in my response, then I'm going to expect you to do the same for me.
If you want me to take you seriously and give genuine consideration to what you're saying, then I'm going to expect you to do the same for me.
If you want me to refrain from insults and ad hominem and treat you with respect, then I'm going to expect you to do the same for me.
None of these are unreasonable, and I have no interest in a "civil" discussion with you if they can't be met by you, and you should have no interest in a "civil" discussion with me if they can't be met by me. Respect is a two-way street. Though I try to give the benefit of the doubt, you don't automatically have someone's respect, you earn it, and if you want mine, you better be willing to show me yours. Likewise, if you're showing me yours and I'm not giving mine, walk away, because I don't deserve it at that time.
Treat others the way you want to be treated. It's not hard.
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