'Antisocial'. I've been called that many times by people in my own family.

It hurts. So I know how you feel about that. Hrm. Not sure how to help, but again. Just stay calm, and wait and see. Loosing a friend is terrible, but sometimes it's un-avoidable.

Even when we don't want it to be.

The difficulties about grouping is that there are always a conflicting schedule, no matter what. If people decide to push the date further back, then the hang-out will never happen. You have to be firm on the date and time before anything else. Don forget to re-confirm the date so people won't forget. If people can't come because they have to do something, then let them do something. They might throw a hissy fit or whatever, but you can always schedule another time with them to make up for the time.

Groupings are hasslesome. That's why I just hang out with a friend or two for a day, and then hang out with other friends on other days.