That I get when I have a conversation with someone that I knew was coming, but wish wasn't, and lose a ton of respect for them from. Because since I know it's coming I spend the time waiting for them to finish talking about the details we all go into that are just lipservice because we like hearing ourselves talk about what we know or think we know thinking about how they'd say what they're going to say and forming up counterarguments that, in the past, have proven fairly accurate.

It feels like I'm stabbing them in the back in some odd way because I've been waiting and preparing for them to act out like this, and when they do they're not expecting someone who will either talk back or make equally valid points.

Am I the only one who gets this feeling, and hates it?