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Pm I Got Today


GregF

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Not sure if this is serious, or a prank, but I thought I would share a PM I got today from a "BIONICLEFan606":

 

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Hello,

 

I made an account on Bzpower specifically just to be able to contact you, Mr. Farshety.

I dont know anything about Bionicle, but I got your name from one of my brother's Bionicle books, and decided that you were the best person to come to.

My little brother, 15, is a really big fan of Lego Bricks, specifically Bionicle. He goes to Central High and plans to attend their College too.

The other day, my brother came home with a broken collar bone and scarred face from some school bullies all because of this stupid toy he like.

That's not all of it.

I am sick of going into his room, and see it covered and decorated with pictures of bionicles and displayments of his 'masks'.

He is becoming a reclusive to our family and is constantly on this website socializing with others about these toys that ruin lives.

I blame all of this entirely on you.

Please go home and think about how there is one teenage boy who you made into a freakin zombie and sucked into your little world.

 

I am leaving this message anonymous mostly because I will never be on this account again. My brothers name will also be kept entirely secret on this site.

 

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If it is serious, it raises some interesting questions in my mind --

 

1) Lots of anger at me, and at LEGO by extension, but no mention of any for the people who beat up his/her brother -- ignorant, intolerant people who would hurt someone for having an interest different from theirs. The evil here is people who want others to think like they do and act like they do -- they are the ones trying to create zombies incapable of independent thought.

 

2) If the account was created specifically to tell me about this, why was it created 12 days ago, and includes posts in the BIONICLE-based creations forums? And why keep it anonymous when you could simply cancel the account, and thus never hear from me?

 

3) If true, this is a tragic story. Even if not true, there may well be similar (if not as extreme) situations liek this out there, so it is worth discussing anyway. But I am not sure what BIONICLE is guilty of here other than being entertaining. No one is forced to adopt it as a hobby -- it is certainly not omnipresent in our culture or something a 15 year old is going to feel he has to be involved in against his will. It sounds like this person found an interest they were genuinely enthusiastic about ... so we are to blame for making BIONICLE worthy of interest.

 

BIONICLE is not a cult -- it's a toy line for 7-9 year olds, supported by a comic, a web site, and some books. There is no TV series popping up on your screen, no MMRPG everyone is talking about, or anything else forcing its way into your life. If BIONICLE is part of your life, it is because you actively chose it to be. And, unfortunately, standing up for things you care about can be painful. I know a lot of BZPers can testify to that.

 

If this young man was spending too much time on BIONICLE -- obsessing over it -- then that is something for the family to deal with. If we are going to blame/shut down everything that has the potential to absorb someone that much, we will not have much left in our culture.

 

Any thoughts?

 

Greg

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Greg, I owe alot to you.

I once PM'ed you because at the time I was getting severely bullied by some people, but ever since you gave me advice, nobody has picked on me ever since.

I hope you know that to alot of people your alot more then just an author. :)

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Never received a response to my PM, which would seem to add fuel to the idea that this was all fake. And, thankfully, I received a very nice PM from a member's Mom who had seen the blog entry and wanted to reassure me that BIONICLE was very welcome in her house.

 

Greg

 

I thought it was fake too. Well, the question is "Why did this user send this lie?"

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Never received a response to my PM, which would seem to add fuel to the idea that this was all fake. And, thankfully, I received a very nice PM from a member's Mom who had seen the blog entry and wanted to reassure me that BIONICLE was very welcome in her house.

 

Greg

 

I thought it was fake too. Well, the question is "Why did this user send this lie?"

Probably a prank but if it is true I wonder why did the bullie's scar his face and brake his collar bone just because he likes toys?My guess is that it wasnt just over Bionicle but the brother just speculated it to be.

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I thought it was fake too. Well, the question is "Why did this user send this lie?"

He needed a way to release his feelings toward BIONICLE.

 

He just chose the wrong method to do so...

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Isn't it odd how interests like Bionicle bring pain to certain people... I feel really sorry for this boy, I am used to bullying for my interests, including Bionicle, but have never seen it taken this far... While on one hand, if this person does seem to despise his brother's Bionicle obsession, he certainly seems to care very much for this brother of his if he is willing to go make an account on a forum about a toy line which he supposedly "hates", and to go to all of this trouble to contact you and not email another public face of Lego. I recommend PMing the guy again, but first, check if he has been active since he PMed you, and if there has been an abnormally large lapse of time between he PMed you and his normall lack of daily/weekly activity. :)

 

 

Wil

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Isn't it odd how interests like Bionicle bring pain to certain people... I feel really sorry for this boy, I am used to bullying for my interests, including Bionicle, but have never seen it taken this far... While on one hand, if this person does seem to despise his brother's Bionicle obsession, he certainly seems to care very much for this brother of his if he is willing to go make an account on a forum about a toy line which he supposedly "hates", and to go to all of this trouble to contact you and not email another public face of Lego. I recommend PMing the guy again, but first, check if he has been active since he PMed you, and if there has been an abnormally large lapse of time between he PMed you and his normall lack of daily/weekly activity. :)

 

 

Wil

 

He seems a bit nervous about making this into an argument. While he will defend the truth of what he said, as he did in his PM to me, he seems to lack the ability to back up his aggressiveness towards Greg, which explains why he hasn't the courage to reply to inquisitive PMs. I figure he is aware that he went too far in his PM to Greg, and is too embarrassed to speak civilly to Greg, which would require that he first apologize.

 

And VtP, please don't call it a lie without evidence. There is still a chance that he is telling the truth about his brother, as it is not beyond some bullies to hurt a kid in such a vulnerable position as this kid's brother appears to be. I've been lucky, but there are bullies that will do as much as has allegedly been done to this kid's brother. "Innocent until proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt" is a very good philosophy, and I believe it would do a lot of good in this situation.

 

- :vahi:

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I really don't see how this could have happened. Of course there probably are many situations like it but this one doesn't seem likely.

1. If they did not know very much about bionicle, how would they know what site to go to? (If you are thinking that he saw his brother on it, he also said his brother was reclusive from everyone else)

2. If he did find out the web site how would he know how to pm Greg and which username it was?

3. If your brother is beat up because he likes bionicle, why would you go to the author of the books instead of someone else? If he didn't know much about bionicle, then he wouldn't know much about the storyline and would probably think that his brother was interested in the toys, so he should have contacted set designers or something.

 

There is know way this could be your fault Mr. Farshtey.

 

that guy :wacko:

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He seems a bit nervous about making this into an argument. While he will defend the truth of what he said, as he did in his PM to me, he seems to lack the ability to back up his aggressiveness towards Greg, which explains why he hasn't the courage to reply to inquisitive PMs. I figure he is aware that he went too far in his PM to Greg, and is too embarrassed to speak civilly to Greg, which would require that he first apologize.

 

No offence whatsoever Aanchira, but why would he just send you a PM and no one else? I dont understand that.

 

In my own opinion I doubt that there is any truth in this story, because of a few things in it. One of them is posters...there are no BIONICLE posters/pictures to my knowledge. And a broken collar bone would be hard to cause by just a gang of bullies. If it is the truth I do feel sorry for him, because Ive seen the stress people being bullied go through. But why would he not just send a letter to the LEGO company, why would he join BZPower and tell Greg, I dont get that. He says he doesnt know anything about BIONICLE but in a post he stated that he has a green one. In my own personal view I think this is fake, and BIONICLEFan606 is just looking for his moment.

 

EHLEK

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Assuming the PM is true, even with all the valid points stated against it, I would connect the bullying to the boys social reclusivness rather than his interest in BIONICLE. From my experience, people only ever bully someone if they find that person annoying or hostile in any way. It 'is' possible to have an independent hobby and not be excessively ridiculed for it, even in American and British schools which are more stereotypical that way.

 

If, however, it was just because he likes BIONICLE, then I guess those people havn't yet learned not to judge someone by physical properties. Hopefully, they will in the future, in which case they would regret assaulting BF606's brother.

 

I agree with Omi though, a broken collar bone and scarred face does sound excessive, regardless of being true or not.

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I really don't see how this could have happened. Of course there probably are many situations like it but this one doesn't seem likely.

1. If they did not know very much about bionicle, how would they know what site to go to? (If you are thinking that he saw his brother on it, he also said his brother was reclusive from everyone else)

Have you considered that that may have been an exaggeration? "Reclusive" could mean never wanting to spend time with the family or spending all his free time online, but doesn't necessarily mean that he locks himself in his room and never lets anyone else in.

 

2. If he did find out the web site how would he know how to pm Greg and which username it was?

Good question, but if he is really as concerned about his brother or just upset about BIONICLE as he claims, it would be worth his effort to find such things out, and let's not forget that he seems to perhaps have been interested in BIONICLE himself at some point.

 

3. If your brother is beat up because he likes bionicle, why would you go to the author of the books instead of someone else? If he didn't know much about bionicle, then he wouldn't know much about the storyline and would probably think that his brother was interested in the toys, so he should have contacted set designers or something.

Obviously because Greg is the highest authority he knew how to contact personally. Also, have you considered that his brother might have some of the BIONICLE books as well as the toys? He could have gotten the name there, then used the internet to find out how best to contact him.

 

He seems a bit nervous about making this into an argument. While he will defend the truth of what he said, as he did in his PM to me, he seems to lack the ability to back up his aggressiveness towards Greg, which explains why he hasn't the courage to reply to inquisitive PMs. I figure he is aware that he went too far in his PM to Greg, and is too embarrassed to speak civilly to Greg, which would require that he first apologize.

 

No offence whatsoever Aanchira, but why would he just send you a PM and no one else? I dont understand that.

Probably because my original post was found by him to be the most offensive one that he personally felt was untrue.

 

In my own opinion I doubt that there is any truth in this story, because of a few things in it. One of them is posters...there are no BIONICLE posters/pictures to my knowledge.

Nonsense. I have plenty, as do some of my friends. They were released in abundance in '01 and '02, and many are still released via the magazines and LEGO-related events.

 

And a broken collar bone would be hard to cause by just a gang of bullies. If it is the truth I do feel sorry for him, because Ive seen the stress people being bullied go through. But why would he not just send a letter to the LEGO company, why would he join BZPower and tell Greg, I dont get that.

By sending a PM to Greg, he could be a lot more personal in his letter, and moreover he could be safe in assuming that it would be read and not just thrown out. Anyway, from his posts he doesn't seem too knowledgeable about BIONICLE, so he could honestly think Greg is in charge of BIONICLE, which something that anyone without a massive interest in BIONICLE might think.

 

He says he doesnt know anything about BIONICLE but in a post he stated that he has a green one. In my own personal view I think this is fake, and BIONICLEFan606 is just looking for his moment.

I am still not sure what to think about that post. However, considering that he would have to go through a lot of trouble to get a username and password since he and his brother have the same IP address, it seems more than likely that he just used his brother's account. It also seems unlikely that he's just "looking for his moment." He hates or hated BIONICLE for some reason or another, and therefore he released that through this PM. Perhaps attention is a factor, but not so much of one as his own anger at BIONICLE.

 

I will PM this member again to ask whether I can post the contents of his PM, but until then try to refrain from making any accusations that you cannot prove.

 

- :vahi:

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:OMG: WHAT??? :OMG:

 

whoever that guy is must be really mad over a toy!!!

I know i do get bullied sometimes for liking bionicles but mostly by my friends or ppl who just try and get ppl to like them. But why would he think that u r responsable for his brothers misery? you didnt beat him up or even do anythin except help right the story. :blink:

 

and why is his name bioniclefan606 wen he hates bionicles?

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Have you considered that that may have been an exaggeration? "Reclusive" could mean never wanting to spend time with the family or spending all his free time online, but doesn't necessarily mean that he locks himself in his room and never lets anyone else in.

I didn't mean that he locked himself away, I was just saying that if he spent all of his time online and stayed away from everyone else, his brother might not have seen the site.

 

Good question, but if he is really as concerned about his brother or just upset about BIONICLE as he claims, it would be worth his effort to find such things out, and let's not forget that he seems to perhaps have been interested in BIONICLE himself at some point.

He would have had to have been really upset over all of this, usually people don't take that much time just to find out the author of a book when he could probably looked up Greg's phone number on the internet or something.

 

Obviously because Greg is the highest authority he knew how to contact personally. Also, have you considered that his brother might have some of the BIONICLE books as well as the toys? He could have gotten the name there, then used the internet to find out how best to contact him.

 

Of course I considered that his brother had books, what i was asking was "how would he have known that Greg had any authority on bionicle other than writing the books?"; for all he knows, Greg could have been told what to write by the story by the bionicle story team, and just had to write it in a way that kids could understand it.

 

 

As a side note, why are you so intent on defending someone that pmed Greg just to yell at him for what some bullies did to his brother at school, Aanchira?

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I sent BF606 a PM back asking:

 

-- If the account was created just to talk to me about this, why was it created two weeks ago? Why with that name? And why was he/she posting in "BIONICLE-based creations?"

 

Obviously the person who got beaten up, because if the account was registered two weeks ago, yeah. And posting in BBC just gives the game away. BUT, the person might have tried to contact you before and could not because of... Stuff, but the posts are just inexcusable.

 

I also suggested that if their story was true, it would make a lot more sense for them to contact LEGO Consumer Service with it, and their school, rather than me. I certainly have a lot to do with BIONICLE, but I work for the company that puts it out -- I don't own the company.

 

True, true.

 

My guess is neither I nor LEGO Company will hear anything more about this, as it is probably fake.

 

Greg

 

~:t::m::n:

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In my own opinion I doubt that there is any truth in this story, because of a few things in it. One of them is posters...there are no BIONICLE posters/pictures to my knowledge.

On the contrary.

 

Promotional posters and small posters came with sets and such.

 

-Omi

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wow. I would have alerted someone about those guys before they ever reached me. that's horific, for someone to be beat up becuase of what he likes.

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Even if not true, there may well be similar (if not as extreme) situations liek this out there, so it is worth discussing anyway.

OMG LIEK GREGEF ROTE ""LIEK"' LOLLZ!!

 

Couldn't resist. On a more serious note, however, I do find it puzzling that this person (if the story is true) would hold this all against you.

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Even if not true, there may well be similar (if not as extreme) situations liek this out there, so it is worth discussing anyway.

OMG LIEK GREGEF ROTE ""LIEK"' LOLLZ!!

 

Couldn't resist. On a more serious note, however, I do find it puzzling that this person (if the story is true) would hold this all against you.

 

Who else would he hold it against? Even if the bullies in question didn't go so far as to break his brother's collarbone, they still don't seem to be the sort of people that one would like as their enemies. Greg, in making himself available to the BIONICLE fan community, would be a primary target for someone so blindly upset as this person must have been. (I say "blindly" because he was obviously in a clearer frame of mind when he PMed me than he was when he sent this injurious PM to Greg).

 

- :vahi:

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You'd have to be pretty foolish to buy this ######, and even more foolish to think anyone would do anything but laugh at this ridiculousness. Especially if it's serious. You'd have to be pretty weak-willed to blame the Farshtey for this. Pretty sure it's more of a case of a family not knowing how to take care of their kid.

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I'm trying to keep calm here. I almost can't.

 

Really. If you consider this toy stupid and dumb don't buy it. But blaming Greg, an outstang person, a jolly guy, an excelent writer for... Working with bionicle, then blame all of us. Every single puny little living creature that likes or works for Bionicle. If you hate it, go ahead, don't buy it. But don't blame Greg for the actions of Bullies. Blame them. Not liking Bionicle and saying it is stupid would be as bad as being the bullies themselves. What would your brother say if he saw this? He would see you blaming Greg. He'd hate you for it. He really would. You have no Idea who he is, you never heard from him and you've not even tried to. So if you are going to keep blaming Lego and specially Greg: Think twice. You're as bad as the bully that beat the (Sorry for the use of the following word) ###### out of your brother. You are hurting your and millions of people's feelings. Your brother's too. So think twice. And DON'T YOU DARE EVER, BLAME ANYTHING RELATED TO THIS ON GREG YOU UNDERSTAND ME? UH?

 

Sorry, couldn't contain myself.

 

Do you even know what Bionicle is about? Do you even know who... Tahu is? Or Karzahni? Or the most famous character of all, Mata Nui? Have you tried to understand what the story is about? Have you? Tried to understand how Takua got the Avohkii, how the MAsk of Life can save Mata Nui, or how Greg writes the story? No. Then TRY! Try to see OUR point of view for once. OUR way of thinking, and stop being such a #####! Such a single minded #####!

 

I really envy your brother's courage. He is a swell guye, and I'd like to meet him. To have the guts to confront someone in that way, saying "I like Bionicle!", to admit he likes 6 year old toys. He is trully brave.

 

Now, I don't normally like to have arguments like this, but I couldn't stop it. I can't take people like that. So single minded, they don't think! THINK YOU DUMB CREATURE! THINK! Do you think it is GREG'S Fault? Then it is your fault the A-Bomb fell on Hiroshyma and Nagasaki because you live on the Earth. Just like the people that launched them did. Did you want it to happen? No. But it did. Did Greg want your brother scarred and with a broken collar bone? No. It's the same thing. Exact same thing.

 

*Deep Breath*

 

The Disousa

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I sent BF606 a PM back asking:

 

-- If the account was created just to talk to me about this, why was it created two weeks ago? Why with that name? And why was he/she posting in "BIONICLE-based creations?"

 

I also suggested that if their story was true, it would make a lot more sense for them to contact LEGO Consumer Service with it, and their school, rather than me. I certainly have a lot to do with BIONICLE, but I work for the company that puts it out -- I don't own the company.

 

My guess is neither I nor LEGO Company will hear anything more about this, as it is probably fake.

 

Greg

it doesn't make sense when he/she is so mad at you

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So true, so true.

I still don't understand why someone would personly blow someone to artahka just for liking something? It makes no sense. And why not blame the person who actualy beat his brother up than by the author of his hobby? I mean, i had to go through a whole school year of people who are beyond the means of the pit calling me everything that could get someone kicked off this site, partialy becuase of my intrest in bionicle and neopets and basicaly being HUMAN.

So BIONICLEFan606, pleas be more open minded.

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I thought I posted here? :???:

 

Anyway. Harsh. I wonder if it was real or not. I like BIONICLE, but sometimes I go for months at a time with out even caring for BIONICLE longer than 10 seconds. Other times, it's like BIONICLE! I'm confused as to the origin of this PM.

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Still trying to figure out how someone makes it home from school with a broken collarbone, rather than ending up in an emergency room ...

 

Greg

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