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A Possibilities Attitude


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Today the Bones Blog brings you an aspect of opinions and discussion brought up in the past entry Friends Can Disagree ("How to Disagree Intelligently" section) -- the benefit of having a "possibilities attitude." This is a key principle I've found that I think can help a lot of people. Important points bold.

 

Conflicting Goals

 

When it comes to opinions and discussion -- indeed, life itself -- people have goals. Goal #1, hopefully, is to be right. To have the opinion that is actually true. To know the truth. (We're talking about thought-opinion here, not personal taste; see "Can Opinions Be Wrong" blog entry, Important Entries content block to the right -- so the kind I define as "theories about reality") I have previously described the three pillars of fiding the truth as logic, all-inclusive research, and an open mind.

 

But there's a competing goal that often gets in the way. Satisfying the ego. Pride. The goal is "I want to appear confident and I want to feel confident".

 

This second goal is not evil. Self-confidence is a key part of a healthy mind -- hesitation and doubt can often cause us trouble. For example, if you hesitate while your car spins out in ice into oncoming traffic, you'd better not hesitate to correct and work your way back to the right lane. In in-person disputes, hesitation is (illogically) seen as a sign of weakness -- of being wrong. Doesn't make you wrong, but you might lose any chance of convincing the other person if they are too set in their ways or you run out of time.

 

However, the two goals often conflict to set up a trap. If a subject comes up in discussion that you haven't really been able to research or think through logically well enough, you will be tempted to say something now now now. Otherwise, you appear "stupid" to many people (non-logicians lol).

 

So the trap is to grasp onto an opinion -- any opinion -- and defend it to the death. The first idea to come to you becomes "my opinion".

 

Other times, you have already formed this opinion -- maybe even done a ton of research on it, but someone else disagrees with it. Instead of hearing them out, you simply defend your own opinion. You see their opinion as "wrong -- not even a possibility," simply because you hadn't considered it yourself beforehand or the like. (I call that an "Instant Rejection Fallacy", BTW.)

 

The idea of it is all about appearances. You want to appear to know you're right. You want to appear confident.

 

I myself have fallen prey to this trap -- I'll call it the "Confidence Trap" -- many times. Even long after I considered myself a logician, this messed me up a lot. I had a certain dilemma in a subject not allowed on BZP, for example, that I honestly could not for the life of me figure out well enough to be confident in it (something I consider a life and death issue). And even just with little things I've gotten stuck in this trap countless times.

 

The Confidence Trap

 

The key concept here is essentially that you only actually give one possibility a chance (or only the possibilities you want to, etc.). After all, if only your opinion is even possible, in your mind, it's far easier to be confident.

 

Why is this a trap?

 

Simple -- you've lost sight of finding the truth. Do you know if "your opinion" really does seem to fit the facts? How can you accurately judge that if you are stubbornly refusing to consider other possibilities?

 

Many people get so entangled in this snare that they actually lose sight of goal #1 completely, or worse, actually think that "my opinion" is the truth. Some people go so far as to think all opinions are subjective, that truth is arbitrary, that there are no absolutes, and other such self-invalidating lines of thinking.

 

Another thing I've encountered often is confusion over just what an "open mind" is. People generally think they're open minded -- and often they go so far as to see the term "close-minded" as a meaningless insult mudslinging debaters throw around. They tend to think that if they're close-minded in some ways, everybody else is too so it's no crime. "Open" is a vague term, after all -- open to what? Clearly, the term doesn't mean open to anything, or you'd be open to becoming a murder or the like.

 

Most often, they have confused personal taste with opinions, so they consider themselves open-minded only to an artificially limited range of types of opinion. For example, obviously if you like a Bionicle set, you probably just plain do or you don't. (Although sometimes we can artificially close off some of our own tastes and we can learn to open those up.) And they know that if they have an opinion that a set will sell well/poorly, actual sales results have the final say about what's true. But they often think that universal statements like "This is a low quality set" are off-limits to debate (they miss that quality is part of taste when it comes to entertainment), even though logically, such an opinion is highly questionable.

 

(Again, see "Can Opinions Be Wrong?" People making that mistake often use the word "opinion" when they really mean personal taste, I've noticed, as if it was a catch-all term. Not always though.)

 

Doubt doesn't even touch some people's minds who use this approach. They may feel literallty 100% confident that they are right -- and yet be wrong.

 

Who cares? Well, with Bionicle debate, indeed, who cares? It's just a toy.

 

But what if you make the same mistake on a life or death issue, and choose wrong?

 

What if you do this with a career-or-unemployed issue? How about a relationship-fail-or-success choice? You name it, just about any important issue in your life has multiple possibilities, and the consequences of choosing poorly can be huge.

 

Beyond that, though, is there really such a thing as a small issue?

 

This trap can, for example, rip up a good relationship merely as a long series of "straw-that-breaks-the-camel's-back" times when someone refuses to listen about the small things. There's always the "if you can't be trusted with the small things" saying to keep in mind. Mental practice with the small things CAN, most definately, help you understand the big things. Time and time again I have learned lessons about reality while debating things as trivial as the Piraka's teeth that later I've been shocked to find helped me understand something far more important.

 

Besides, an "I'm right no matter what you say" attitude is a big part of what can tear friends and whole communities apart. You might think your "one possibility" attitude in a complaint/debate topic is just a trivial thing about a toy, when in fact it can be more about you as a person and how you relate to other people. People have eyes -- attitudes aren't generally lost on them.

 

So even on small disagreements, this trap can cause big damage.

 

Solution

 

So I think the best way to approach discussion/debate/dispute/argument/opinions/life itself is a "possibilities attitude." Put simply, if you consider multiple possibilities honestly, you're a lot more likely to arrive at the truth. With any question, you try to put into mind multiple possibilities, analyzing them to see which makes the most sense.

 

In fact, you will actually be even more confident if you embrace it fully!

 

Self-confidence shouldn't be associated with "your opinion." Too often, people confuse their identity with their opinions. Wrong approach. Instead, treat "your opinion" simply as one possibility, the one you're leaning towards right now, or even the one you're convinced of right now. Base your self-confidence on who you are, not what you think (a lot of times people fail here because they let others dictate to them who they are rather than owning up to their own personal tastes and talents).

 

For example, when I'm making a Bionicle storyline theory, I don't actually believe it's true (generally).

 

I know it's possible that it isn't, but I do to create food for thought and go on record that it's the theory I think makes the most sense at the moment. Chances are it will be disproven. I have self-confidence regardless of that, because of my "possibilities" approach. I am confident in my own worth for what it is -- that shouldn't be tied to whatever my opinions happen to be.

 

So when someone disagrees with you, treat their opinion as an actual possibility. Analyze it honestly for its own worth. Of course, never give into the temptation to agree just because you feel like it either -- but be willing to agree IF it actually makes sense to you.

 

With more important issues in life, it makes sense, BTW, not to be quite as willing to agree. Especially not with in-person debates, because way too often there's something you are forgetting that you'll later think of (or something you haven't learned yet) that will show you actually were right. But just having the attitude that "I still think you're wrong, but it is a possibility" goes a long way, and ironically actually makes you appear far better than if you appear stubborn. But mull it over in your mind and do more research -- maybe you'll end up changing your mind after all.

 

A tip -- don't just stop at considering others' points as possibilities. Practice always thinking up a full range of possibilities on your own.

 

Use your imagination and ask yourself "what else is possible?" This is the best mental practice I know of, and can help you in so many aspects of your life I wouldn't have time to try to list them all.

 

Of course, you don't always have time to do that. Time constraints have to take first priority, of course, usually. One thing a famous inventor advised though -- take time out to be alone so that you can think. Exact quote or source escapes me, but it's true. Sometimes finding your way is as simple as taking a quiet hour alone to think things through.

 

"Meditation", as it were, cheesy though that might sound.

 

A Place for Feeling

 

Notice that I call this an "attitude." I am implying that this is more emotional than logical. It's sort of both, actually, as I'll get into below. But it's first an attitude.

 

Emotion is the #1 blockade between a person and the right thing. I'm sure you've heard the saying "a level-head". Star Trek grasped part of this with the idea of Spock the logical Vulcan, seeing logic and emotion as opposites. But these ideas are missing something -- emotion is not the opposite of logic, but rather a foundation of it. You just have to have the right type of foundation.

 

In the past I've talked about how ultimately emotion is necessary for logic to have a point.

 

Knowing you're right leads to a feeling of peace and safety. Being right might lead to life instead of death, giving you the chance for positive emotion in your life. Etc. What's the point of anything if there's no positive and negative at the end of the day?

 

There's another part to it, though -- it takes the right attitude to begin with if you will decide to be logical about a question.

 

Contrary to popular misconception, logicians like me are just as emotional as anybody else. But we don't let emotion decide our thought-opinions for us. Emotion is for personal taste, logic is for thought. If you have the emotional attitude that you welcome the truth, and that you might not necessarily have found it yet, you can enjoy the process of thinking things through. And you can enjoy the feeling you get as you get closer and closer to the truth.

 

If you train yourself well enough in logic, you can even get so good at spotting good and bad arguments you can actually "feel" which one makes the most sense far faster than if you took the time to consciously think it through. This is tricky and requires total honesty and total lack of ego, though, so it takes a lot of practice (it's sort of like muscle memory).

 

Training yourself in the attitude of giving different possibilities a chance can, with practice, make you able to almost uncannily sort out the truth in just seconds (at least as far as you can tell based on what research you have). I would compare the experience to the main character in Ted Dekker's novel Blink (or like the old classic Dune), to in seconds being able to "see" multiple possibilities and choose the right one.

 

A Place for Thinking

 

Ultimately, logical thinking and all-inclusive research are the most important parts of a search for the truth. An open mind is a starting point -- but a starting point with no way to judge where to go next is useless. Knowing the common logical fallacies to avoid, knowing the basics of validity and soundness, etc. are huge keys. This is part of why I say that logic isn't so much a field like astrophysics or engineering, but something that everybody can benefit from, sort of like a healthy diet.

 

But a possibilities attitude can help you even if you know nothing about logic, and even if you have no idea where to begin researching or lack the time.

 

For example. If you hear the allegation "Five thousand people can't be wrong!" in an ad, you think of the possibility "but maybe those people have different needs or wants than me." You don't have to know that's the logical fallacy of "Ad Populum" to figure out for yourself that it's invalid. Simply consider if there's any realistic way for the statement/argument to be false.

 

When it comes down to the wire in debate, you'll find that often this approach means you have to hold your tongue or say "I'm not sure about that yet" way more often. Sometimes you just have to swallow and face up to that when you take this attitude. Because you can't just feel your way to the truth most of the time -- you do have to consciously think.

 

And it cannot stop at just thinking -- research is needed. But thinking first about what kind of research is a good starting point is wise. Also, many people even in the highest functions of life tend to reject some sources of research before they even look at them -- this is contrary to finding the truth. You can't know if something is a realistic possibility until you give it an honest chance.

 

BTW, I'm defining "research" as knowledge, facts, evidence, etc. and not necessarily the stuffed-shirt definition of "read it in a book and cite your source." I'm just talking about things you know. Stuff in your head.

 

Go back to what I've often said about ignorance -- it's not "stupid," it's not an insult IMO, it's nothing to be ashamed of. But it is "not knowing something," and to find the truth, you do need to know as much as you can. So if you don't have enough knowledge yet, it's usually best not even to form an opinion per se, or not to be too confident of the one you're leaning towards. To withhold judgement.

 

In short, "possibilities attitude" sums up logic, all-inclusive research, and an open mind. :) It is the way to find the truth.

 

 

 

ION:

 

--Deadline for 2nd Chances MOC Contest: Beasts! (Bionicle Paracosmos Contest #1) is now moved to 11:59 PM EST (which I call midnight) on Sunday July 6. So you get a few extra days.

 

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Spock would :wub: you.

 

Except he would disagree that emotions are necessary for logical though and promptly denounce your entire line of reasoning. Unfortunately, I must also disagree with you on that point. Emotion is not necessary for logic- it merely gives you a feeling of well-being afterwards. Therefore, it is not critical to the logic process itself.

 

 

 

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Where do you come up with these entries?

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I feel as though I must agree with Karzahni's Servant. Emotions have only hindered my logic; and to get my logic to its uppermost efficiency, I need to push all emotion aside.

 

Otherwise, in reference to your entry's picture; I love fractal geometry.

 

Argy

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Perhaps I didn't explain well enough -- what I mean is, you need to have a positive attitude towards logic to begin with, if you're going to be logical. Enjoying the process and especially being able to enjoy it when you're proven wrong (a rare skill it seems, unfortunately) too.

 

So basically emotion has a place before logic, alongside it, and after it. But not part of it.

 

And I would agree with you, Argetlam, that ideally it wouldn't be needed alongside it either -- yes, it's more efficient to push it away totally. I am saying this for the benefit of those who find that difficult or even repulsive -- you can still be logical and emotional at the same time if you do it right. :)

 

And even there, you are actually doing something emotionally -- you're having a positive attitude towards the idea of pushing emotions totally away from the thought process, because you desire emotionally the benefits that gets. There too, emotion is needed to even start that process or motivate it.

 

I'd compare this to something said by a Coast Guard helicopter pilot said on the Discovery show "After the Catch" (as in, after "Deadliest Catch" which is about Alaskan Crab fishing in the dangerous Bering Sea). When there's an emergency, you compartmentalize -- you push all emotion out and you just concentrate on doing the job. Or at least she does, but that's the way it's done.

 

But that doesn't emotion has no place -- after all, she does that for emotional reasons. The person who's in danger needs a cool head to save their life. She does that so at the end of the day, the person can live on. Someone with no emotional regard for life would not be able to carry out that job; would not be able to compartmentalize their emotions and thought processes.

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It is in my opinion that my opinion is right and your opinion is wrong about my opinion being wrong and your opinion being right.

 

-Omi

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With any question, you try to put into mind multiple possibilities, analyzing them to see which makes the most sense.

 

I already try to do that though and scarily enough, I do it consciously. :P When I'm not absolutely sure about something, I type down every probable/possible answer to the problem with my reasoning behind each one. That means that I'm more likely to have picked the right one. I suppose it's like betting on all of the horses at a race. :P

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First of all, you happen to be doing it wrong:

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Second of all, you do not actually need a cool head- if you lack emotions altogether, then you would not panic/therefore do not need a cool head, as you would have no concern/panic/anything.

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When I'm not absolutely sure about something, I type down every probable/possible answer to the problem with my reasoning behind each one.

 

Especially on important things, that's a good method, I think.

 

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One thing about logic is that it's a process -- and the answer we get from that process -- that (if it's real logic) makes sense, cause logic makes sense: That's the point of it, after all. Emotion does NOT always make sense; sometimes it's not even the emotion we'd like to feel at the time, if we could choose.

 

Emotions are more of a reflexive, automatic response. Logic is more deliberate. A choice, rather than a reflexive thing.

 

Hm. That's all I can really type up now.

 

But logic can and does influence emotions. Let's say, uh, during WW II someone in Nazi Germany had logically decided Hitler was an evil psychopath. Thus he would be happy to have Hitler defeated.

 

So logic and emotion are not entirely disconnected or opposites. They influence each other. And both are an important part of being human.

 

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I think -- correct me if your experience is otherwise -- that if you say you try to be logical, people think, if only for a second, that you're like a Vulcan from Star Trek: You dislike and/or try to flatten all emotion in favor of cold logic.

 

Does your experience support that? I'd be happy to be wrong. Of course.

 

 

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Ooooh I see a Taste Discrimination Fallacy:

it takes the right attitude to begin with

Who says the attitude you are talking about is right? :P

 

Seriously though, nice entry! That 'Confidence Trap' is something that will make you seem right and be confident at first, but the more you cling to it (if you are wrong), the more you will be proven wrong and the less you will be confident. In the end you'll be making a fool of yourself while you're defending your instinctual first answer, because you think this will bring your confidence back eventually. So in a sense, the Confidence Trap can be a paradox as you fall for it because it makes you feel confident, but in the end it will take all of your confidence away.

 

By the way, I think a big flaw that leads to the Confidence Trap is again confusing ("thought-")opinion with personal taste. The great factor that gives you confidence here is the idea of 'being someone', as in the fourth 'need' of Maslow's hierarchy of needs, so you'll have to have something in yourself which you can depend upon and look at thinking 'There, I'm not a ghost, I'm actually something'.

 

The problem is that if you depend on fallible opinions you block yourself from seeing their fallibility, while if you depend on (infallible) personal taste, you can never be wrong so you don't have to worry about seeing the fallibility. The trick would be knowing your own tastes and knowing how they are changing (because they may).

 

Another, harder way would be to just be confident for the sake of it. The problem here is that you can't depend on anything, but if you manage to keep it up it can be better than depending on taste, as you don't have to worry about your tastes changing.

 

And I find it interesting you mentioned the Life-or-Death issue in this entry (I.E. in relation to this subject). I won't respond to it here as it's obviously not allowed, but I thought I'd just mention it now and respond later off-BZP.

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I'd compare this to something said by a Coast Guard helicopter pilot said on the Discovery show "After the Catch" (as in, after "Deadliest Catch" which is about Alaskan Crab fishing in the dangerous Bering Sea). When there's an emergency, you compartmentalize -- you push all emotion out and you just concentrate on doing the job. Or at least she does, but that's the way it's done.

 

But that doesn't emotion has no place -- after all, she does that for emotional reasons. The person who's in danger needs a cool head to save their life. She does that so at the end of the day, the person can live on. Someone with no emotional regard for life would not be able to carry out that job; would not be able to compartmentalize their emotions and thought processes.

One more clarification I forgot -- you might notice I talked about "faster logic" under the "feelings" part. That's not really emotions -- emotions are simple chemicals -- that means using the smaller (thus faster) core area of the brain to think fast, as opposed to the much slower forward area that we normally "think" with. When you ride a bike, walk, type pilot a rescue helicopter, or whatever (assuming you're experienced enough), you're most often using this type of "feeling." This is actually in essence the part of your brain where emotion and logic literally blend.

 

That's the subconscious, in normal language. (Or part of it. :P)

 

If you study logic (with your conscious), you can train your own subconscious to basically do logic faster. Emotions do get into the mix here, but if you train yourself well, it can actually be more efficient than pure conscious logic, simply because you can react faster. You can hear an argument and instantly "feel" that something's off with it, for example. You could call it intuition perhaps.

 

I think normal people actually do this in a lot of ways that I have never been able to do. I've mentioned before that I seem to have some kind of mental condition that makes me think more slowly than most people -- I think it's because for whatever reason my conscious controls more of what I do than for most people who use their subconscious more. It's an allocation thing -- it's good for me in some ways because it helps me analyze better. Part of the reason I'm a logician. :P But in fastpaced dangerous situations it's bad for me, and it stinks for in-person communication.

 

So it's actually sortof a learning curve for me that I try to learn how to do that. "Normal people" usually don't know as much about valid logic, though, so consciously or subconciously they make mistakes like Ad Populum. When they learn about that fallacy, they might consciously know the majority isn't always right, but subconsciously they might still feel that the majority is automatically right, and in real life situations "go with the flow," because they haven't trained their subconscious to "feel" that the majority is sometimes (sometimes) wrong.

 

If they had, then in that case, "feeling" mixed into emotion would be more efficient, not less. All about whether you train your "feelings" to be logical or you leave them in their default illogical ways. (Of course, we can usually already feel a lot of basics about logic; otherwise we wouldn't be able to interpret what our senses tell us about our surroundings; i.e. if you see a shape in front of you, you know it means there's an object there (or... an illusion...).)

 

Anyways. To clarify.

 

 

With any question, you try to put into mind multiple possibilities, analyzing them to see which makes the most sense.

 

I already try to do that though and scarily enough, I do it consciously. :P When I'm not absolutely sure about something, I type down every probable/possible answer to the problem with my reasoning behind each one. That means that I'm more likely to have picked the right one. I suppose it's like betting on all of the horses at a race. :P

Sortof. :P More like researching or following all the horses, studying the course, and making an "educated guess" on a single horse, because you do sort of "pick" one. And how big a bet you make would depend on how sure you are. For example, there are some ideas about reality I believe, but I'm sure about maybe 55%, but one thing I'm sure about 99%. I always keep a 1% possibility that I could be wrong in mind, especially in discussion, because logically it IS possible to be wrong.

 

When I'm not absolutely sure about something, I type down every probable/possible answer to the problem with my reasoning behind each one.

 

Especially on important things, that's a good method, I think.

 

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One thing about logic is that it's a process -- and the answer we get from that process -- that (if it's real logic) makes sense, cause logic makes sense: That's the point of it, after all. Emotion does NOT always make sense; sometimes it's not even the emotion we'd like to feel at the time, if we could choose.

 

Emotions are more of a reflexive, automatic response. Logic is more deliberate. A choice, rather than a reflexive thing.

 

Hm. That's all I can really type up now.

 

But logic can and does influence emotions. Let's say, uh, during WW II someone in Nazi Germany had logically decided Hitler was an evil psychopath. Thus he would be happy to have Hitler defeated.

 

So logic and emotion are not entirely disconnected or opposites. They influence each other. And both are an important part of being human.

 

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I think -- correct me if your experience is otherwise -- that if you say you try to be logical, people think, if only for a second, that you're like a Vulcan from Star Trek: You dislike and/or try to flatten all emotion in favor of cold logic.

 

Does your experience support that? I'd be happy to be wrong. Of course.

 

 

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That's actually part of why I brought up what I did about feelings. Yes, people falsely assume that all the time. In fact, some have gone to such an extreme that they actually accuse me of not really being a logician just because I use emoticons lol. And express emotion in my posts. (Of course, I do unfortunately use the wrong emotions sometimes and sure, it affects my logic when I make that mistake. :( That's a hugo learning curve too and logic is a hugo help sorting out what situations should be matched with what emotions.)

 

In this entry I alluded to a past entry where in fact in one of the replies, someone actually thought I was arguing that emotion was bad. That was the "Why I Do What I Do" entry, Important Entries listlink.

 

And that's my point about Spock and ST vulcans. Unfortunately the writers planted (or watered, really) a horrible misconception that humans are "emotional" and only some alien or robots are "logical." They talked again and again about this as if it was a dichotomy. It's not at all; it's just that illogic and misplaced emotions are harmful. (So there's a bad side in both categories.)

 

In their defense, they didn't really know as much as we know now at the time about emotions and brain function, though. But yeah, a lot of people actually defend their illogic as "human", and others think emotion is wrong, etc. etc. It's a tangled mess out there, lol. :P

 

Ooooh I see a Taste Discrimination Fallacy:

it takes the right attitude to begin with

Who says the attitude you are talking about is right? :P

Oez noez! :o

 

Eet Eez the zamorzorz! Or whateverzorz!

 

Seriously though, nice entry! That 'Confidence Trap' is something that will make you seem right and be confident at first, but the more you cling to it (if you are wrong), the more you will be proven wrong and the less you will be confident. In the end you'll be making a fool of yourself while you're defending your instinctual first answer, because you think this will bring your confidence back eventually. So in a sense, the Confidence Trap can be a paradox as you fall for it because it makes you feel confident, but in the end it will take all of your confidence away.

 

By the way, I think a big flaw that leads to the Confidence Trap is again confusing ("thought-")opinion with personal taste. The great factor that gives you confidence here is the idea of 'being someone', as in the fourth 'need' of Maslow's hierarchy of needs, so you'll have to have something in yourself which you can depend upon and look at thinking 'There, I'm not a ghost, I'm actually something'.

 

The problem is that if you depend on fallible opinions you block yourself from seeing their fallibility, while if you depend on (infallible) personal taste, you can never be wrong so you don't have to worry about seeing the fallibility. The trick would be knowing your own tastes and knowing how they are changing (because they may).

 

Another, harder way would be to just be confident for the sake of it. The problem here is that you can't depend on anything, but if you manage to keep it up it can be better than depending on taste, as you don't have to worry about your tastes changing.

 

And I find it interesting you mentioned the Life-or-Death issue in this entry (I.E. in relation to this subject). I won't respond to it here as it's obviously not allowed, but I thought I'd just mention it now and respond later off-BZP.

Indeed, all very well said. Truth, as they'd say in Dune. :P

 

Yeah. I hesitate to even allude to that issue, since it is so touchy and complex and all that (and since it's not allowed here, heh). Though of course, there are many life-and-death issues, many we can talk about. Like recently when a certain-someone-who-shall-not-be-named stopped a certain car in the middle of midspeed oncoming traffic because heshe was talking on the cellphone... and had to be reminded to switch their brain on as it were. :fear: (I'm not talking about me. :P) That person wasn't thinking of possibilities at that moment -- like is it possible that this road we're crossing might have actual traffic on it? (Answer -- daily double -- I mean, yes.) This can save your life in any number of ways. :)

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