I was trying to be nice and keep you anonymous...
Anyways, you posted in your blog that any drug-users (including coffee drinkers) have "problems." I hear my loved ones criticized for this every day and so I replied in your blog that drug-users don't always and can be good people. I'm defending the memories of the people I love from this sort of criticism.
I thought it didn't go through, so I posted it again later. After that one disappeared, again with no explanation, I got irritated and kept trying to at least get an answer for why my perfectly valid comment was gone.
Then you PMed me and I replied that you insulted my relatives. You said you didn't understand how. After I told you that you had claimed they had problems, you randomly shifted to lecturing me about the amount of chemicals in cigarette smoke.
We got into an argument about what constitutes an insult. You insisted that, as I had called you closeminded earlier, I had insulted you and that, because a few of my family members had used drugs, what you said wasn't an insult.
At some point you gave a list of things you thought made the drug-use morally wrong and this time asked if it applied to my entire family! Then you started claiming that because I brought it up and defended them, I didn't truly care about them.
That is something I find insulting. The idea that you would claim I don't love my family disgusts me. Why would I not be angry?