That was quite an interestingly detailed entry. While I myself am not a Staff Member, I can understand many of the subjects you were hitting. Staff Members make newer and lower ranking ones seem less important. In a sense, the Staff members are like Vahki. They're enforcing the rules and doing their jobs. The Admins are more like Turaga Dume to that relation. They see the staff as necessary to maintain order throughout the forums. Everyone else is like a Matoran. Not every Matoran in Metru Nui saw the Vahki as helpful. Some saw them as annoying (Takua) and others hoped they wouldn't ruin projects they had going. The relation there is how BZP members see the staff as annoying (Due to Proto Loss / Sig + Avatar removal / Post Count Subtraction / a lot of other things) and how members are probably fretting in theirt minds that their topic won't be closed. As I stated earlier, the Staff members are like Vahki, order enforcers just doing their job. The problem is that throughout history, sentient beings have had a problem dealing with authority. When these people are punished for their actions, they may find it unfair or cruel. If a staff member thinks punishment is necessary, there's a high chance it is. The fact is, they understand where we stand, because it was where they once were too. They may not always be able to have their ideals understood (Matoran couldn't understand Vahki after all) but when we think about it for a while, they're doing the right thing, and that's all we can expect from them. The kindness they give through all of the animosity other members may feel surpasses their duties alone. They help out with contests and such, even though they don't have to. Don't hate the staff members, learn from what they can teach.
-Ced